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Arthur Midian's avatar

Poor little Albert!

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We are born with two innate fears for survival: loud noises and falling.

We learn the rest via exposure, conditioning and/or today, 'bubble-wrapping from an ever present onslaught of a fear-mongering social media.' Very sad!

We lack spontaneity and hands-on learn by doing and failing.

Irrational fears are the norm, and unfortunately are 'treated' with MEDS, without ever getting to the root cause. This is woven into how we perceive people, places and things as chronic DIStressors.

NO, I am NOT talking about abuse, violent environments, serious accidents, injuries, PTSD, etc. or grief from the loss of a loved one.

It cracks me up ... feeling 'stressed' [whatever that means] .... of course breathwork, meditation, movement, etc. play a key role in restoring homeostasis, from SNS back to PNS dominance. Good!

But do we ever directly confront and tackle the stressor strategically? Do we actively work towards changing our perception of the so-called DIStressor?

We all have fears, and experience Distress. But are they affecting how we function in our daily lives, work, social connections? Are they promulgating irrational fears in our kids? our elders?

Stress is the means to learning, growth and discovery. Overcoming fears does the same, providing a window of opportunity for nurturing our Purpose [reasons to get up the morning bigger than self].

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