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JP Ashworth's avatar

I hit the gym 4–5 times a week, ruck, and do hard things—just because.

It used to be all about the physical benefits. But after losing my 7-year-old daughter, it’s become something much deeper. Pushing my body has helped me process grief in a way almost nothing else has—aside from therapy.

Without it, I honestly don’t know where I’d be today.

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Ryker's avatar

As someone who chose to endure miserable workouts for years (looking at you "150 wall-balls for time"), the section where Kashey said your terrible workout might actually result in a net negative hit so hard. There's definitely a lot of value in finding your limits every now and then, but there's a fine line between consistently challenging yourself and drudgery.

I thought being miserable meant it was working; that was my litmus test for what constituted a "good workout."

That section was a really solid ego check. I used to think I was more of an athlete for enduring more misery than others - turns out I was just dumb, which is not surprising in the slightest. Lol.

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